If you have the signs of being a sangoma then you must be patient and listen to your ancestors because there is no short cut. All you do is respect your elders and listen to them carefully and pay attention to your dreams. If you are going around consulting everytime because you are indenial then you will stuck in life, ancestors have their way of doing things so pay attention the signs are there. Ancestors won't let you suffer, it is you who make your life hard because of not paying attention.
If you refuse to listen then you suffer the consequences, ancestors need respect and someone who listens to them not a disrespectful person who will do as they please. If you want to connect with them phahla and pray in order to appease them then they will guide you.
Dlozi lives we just need to pay attention.