What Is Really Love ?


I saw this story somewhere and I just had to share

Years ago, when I lived in Lugbe, a suburb in Abuja, several girls lived in a building adjacent to me. They strictly lived to be picked up by men.

The girls will go out at night and return the following morning. I and other neighbors were angry. The girls were very noisy. They never cared who their noise disturbed. One day the landlord had enough. He evicted all of them. Their properties were thrown out. All the girls found somewhere else to relocate, except one. She had no place to go

She kept her belongings in our building corridor, and on nights that she was home, she will sleep there and that was on most nights

The tenants in the building, including my husband and I, met to plan how to put her and her belongings out. Surprisingly, one tenant, a woman was against the idea...She asked, “What would you do if this girl was your daughter, sister, or relative? “She told us that this girl and her friends have no doubt made wrong choices. But she reminded us that we too, at some point in our past also made wrong choices. But God still held us close to his heart and saved us. She cautioned us as Christians to consider what Jesus would do.

Everyone was quiet. But none suggested any way to help the now homeless lady.

Later on, the same woman who defended her at the meeting talked with her husband. They agreed to house the girl in their moderate apartment.

They invited the girl into their home and told her she could stay with them. The homeless girl was shocked when the woman said to her,” we know what you do for a living. And you are free to go out at night and come back the next day if that is what you choose to do. Feel free to eat our food. Use the other bedroom. It's yours as long as you live here. Live like one of us. We did not bring you in to judge you. But we will continue to pray for you. Hopefully, the spirit will talk to you at your own time.”

The girl was dumbfounded. And she cried. At night she stayed home. Going out to look for men gradually became a thing of the past. She would join the family for morning devotion and go to church with them on Sundays

One day, the woman now her landlord of sorts told her of her husband's decision to pay for her to register in a university. The lady gained admission into a university. She graduated on top of her class and got a good job. But even before she graduated with her university grant for outstanding students, she had started a business of her own.

Today, when you enter her office, she has this woman and her husband’s photo on the wall behind her desk. The photo has the inscription “My parents, the only Christian I know”.

Folks, what is love? Many Christians cannot answer this question. We resist the true essence of love. The truth is, Christ died for us. Why would a righteous man die for sinners? That is what love is. What can you for someone even against your intrinsic instincts?

Everyone we have chosen not to forgive, deserves forgiveness. That is the sacrifice that a true Christian, who shows true love makes.

Love is not the practice of loving beautiful people. True love is shown by being willing to truly love those that many look down upon. Can someone say of you, “I met a true believer in you “?

listener11 newshub-gh@operanewshub.com