Why Be Hopeful? Why Not Give Up?
Because if you start to go No Contact and you know how to be dumped with class and without begging..there is a scientific reason to be hopeful.
Scientists/Psychologists Have Proven That Bad Memories Fade in Time
Psychologists and neurologists have now proven that the brain reprocesses memories to make pain tolerable and to promote growth. After you have a breakup the fighting or the even that occur triggers a lot of pain. The raw feelings of a bad relationship are still there. But over time those bad memories fade and the good memories are primarily what is left. It is not always true.
That is why the no contact method is so powerful. It allows you to limit contact which limits the chances of drama and fighting again. And it allows that person to miss you.
What is hard is starting a BRAND NEW relationship that doesn't trigger the past. There must be change between both of you. The hard part is not getting your ex to go on dates with you again. It is KEEPING YOUR Ex.