Signs Your Wife Needs More Attention

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First, it’s important to understand that a woman feeds off the attention her man shows her; every woman gets that marital satisfaction when her husband gives her enough attention. It gives joy, happiness, satisfaction and security. However, when she’s unsatisfied and needs more attention from you, these are some of the signs she tends to show

1. She starts bothering you.

men like “space.” We need it like we need oxygen. It could be a nice workout at the gym or just watching a football game. You may feel like she treats you like you don’t deserve time for yourself, but the reality is usually that she just misses you and wants to feel more important. That’s why she may interrupt you in the middle of a game. She’s thinking, “Does he care more about me or the game?” I know it may sound like she is being a little dramatic or overly sensitive, but women are wired differently than men. Her “bothering” you may be a symptom of a bigger issue. She may even feel a little jealous that you seem to enjoy other activities more than the time you share with her.

2. Your significant other is always nagging you

Does your spouse criticize you or continuously tell you what to do? She might feel as if she's on her own in your marriage and is searching for a way to gain control. If your spouse seems to be nagging more often than normal (we all nag a little from time to time), it might be that she's feeling alone and could use more positive couple time.

3. They are spending more time on the phone 

We can’t deny that most modern couples deal with their problems by neglecting them for as long as possible. If your partner feels ignored by you, he/she might rely on technology to fill that void. Some people choose to watch movies and dramas, some over engage in social media, news, and some find comfort talking to others over these social media platforms because they feel supported. If your partner spends more time with their phone than you, you need to pay more attention to them to keep your relationship stronger. 

4. They have stopped sharing their needs 

Suppose you think your partner has suddenly turned into a one-person army. They think they could handle anything and everything in life, and they are constantly refusing to take any support from you. It’s a clear signal that there is a lack of attention in your relationship. They need you to be there more than you are, and they have stopped hoping that you would understand. It’s time you realize they deserve the attention they are demanding.

5. She tells you she misses you regularly.

Your wife missing you should be a good thing, right? Well, if it feels like a burden, it’s probably because she is asking you for more attention than you are willing to give. You probably don’t require as much attention as she does. She isn’t trying to keep you locked up or get in the way of your freedom. Women love connection time. See it as an opportunity to nourish your relationship. Take time to check in with her and see if her “love tank” (aka emotional connection) is empty. Taking a preventative approach is way more effective than waiting until she is complaining that she is missing you. If she stops missing you, then you will have a bigger problem on your hands.

6. She picks on things that aren’t very important

Yes, she watches every move you make and becomes really suspicious when you fail to give her the attention she needs. She’ll find a way for you to give it to her in ways that may not make sense to you. It means she still cares, you should be worried if she stops picking on the irrelevant things.

7. Your spouse is extra clingy

Does your spouse seem to be extra touchy-feely with you? She might be sending you a sign that she needs more attention. When a partner seems constantly clingy, she might be demonstrating a fear of abandonment and may be trying to ease that anxiety by excessively demonstrating her love.

8. Your partner seems more distant

In contrast to being extra clingy, some partners who feel neglected might become distant. This avoidance could be a sign that your partner feels low on your list of priorities and could use more affection, time, and attention to prove he's an important part of your daily life.

9. She begins to disconnect

Some women might not be the complaining type or the type that know how to express themselves. Some could just be quiet about their emotions and not know how to express herself. This will make them begin to distant themselves from you, and this is very risky in the long run. Attention makes the woman happier and if she’s not getting it from her man, that marriage would never be a happy one.

10. She says things like you dont make me a priority.

If she begins to tell you things like “you don’t care about me” even when you honestly do, it’s her own way of saying she’s feeling left out. She wants to be your priority; making her your priority is the best way to give her attention.

11. They are not interested in getting intimate 

When a person doesn’t get the attention they deserve, they feel unhappy and unwanted. The detachment makes them look at you as a stranger and face trouble getting intimate. It’s a clear sign that you need to spend some couple-quality time to reconnect with your partner.

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