Reasons why she lost interest and stopped responding to your texts

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As much as some of the reasons why she stopped texting you might be out of your control, I would be remiss not to mention the behavior that contributes to a woman losing interest, being turned off or finding someone else.

1. You texted her too much

I completely understand how excited you are to text a girl who shows interest in you. However, just because you can text all the time doesn’t mean you should.

Giving a woman some space can actually improve attraction by making her miss you. 

During that time apart and not texting, she will be able to fantasize and think about you. This will create feelings of anticipation and excitement for your next text.

None of this would be possible if you are constantly texting a woman.

2. You were overwhelming

The problem with texting a girl too much is that you can often say too many things that are overwhelming.

Romance should never be forced. When someone feels like their freedom is being snatched away, it can make them panic and run away.

If you made the mistake of constantly texting her long and drawn-out messages that encapsulate all of your feelings for her, it can be scary.

This is especially true during the early stages of courtship. Rather than appear to be desirable, you may come across as desperate, needy or clingy.

These are not characteristics that are usually considered attractive when getting to know someone.

3. You sent inappropriate texts

Texting is great but it can never replace real-life interactions. A conversation in person allows you to adapt your tone, approach and words around the circumstances and her reactions.

You don’t have the same luxury over text.

Something that seems funny or okay to bring up in your mind may come across completely different to her over text.

I’ve seen many guys talk themselves out of a relationship over text because they made inappropriate sexual remarks or asked intrusive questions.

If this is something that you have engaged in regularly, it could be a significant reason why she is turned off by you.

Just to summarize, why did she stop texting me? The reason why she stopped texting you is that she lost interest, she met someone else, you turned her off or she could be busy and unavailable right now.

From experience, I’ve noted a significant increase in these outcomes when you tend to text a woman inappropriately, too frequently or too emotionally early in the relationship or interaction.

For these reasons, I highly encourage you to use texting as a means of facilitating a date with women or to build a surface level of rapport more than anything else. Unless, of course, you have a good foundation of how to text women without turning them off or chasing them away, then it’s okay.

Your best course of action is to give her space. 

Just because she stopped texting you doesn’t mean that it’s a good time to text her more. Send her a text or two at most. Thereafter, wait for her to reply.

The last thing you want to do is beg and plead for a reason why she stopped texting you. That devalues your worth and is something you’ll regret.

Instead, maintain your composure and wait for her to reach out while carrying on with your life.

When you live by the motto that you will only make time for people who want to be with you, it becomes infinitely easier to have relationships that work out and add joy to your life.

With that being said, I hope you found this article on “why did she stop texting me” to be informative, insightful and eye-opening. Please feel free to leave your questions or thoughts in the comment section below and let’s keep the conversation going.

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